The Chariot & The Fire Within: How Emotional Intelligence Unlocks True Motivation
In the ancient language of tarot, The Chariot arrives as the seventh major arcana—a symbol of focus, determination, and triumph through disciplined will. The armored charioteer doesn’t succeed by accident. He succeeds through alignment. He holds no reins, only intention. Before him are two sphinxes—one black, one white—pulling in opposite directions until his centered self brings them into balance.
In the world of Emotional Intelligence (EQ), this image reflects a deeper inner challenge: how to remain motivated not by fear, approval, or reward, but by a true and personal sense of meaning.
We’ve all faced it—that quiet fatigue when our “why” fades. The applause dies down. The deadlines stretch out. The goals begin to feel like cages. You start to wonder if you're still walking your path—or someone else’s.
This is where Intrinsic Motivation and Self-Actualization, two vital components of the EQ-i 2.0 model, become essential.
What is Intrinsic Motivation, Really?
Intrinsic motivation is the energy that comes from within. It’s not fueled by money, praise, or recognition. It’s the internal fire that drives us to do something because it matters to us. It’s purpose over performance. Process over product.
In EQ, Self-Actualization is the pursuit of personal growth and fulfillment. It’s the ongoing process of becoming who we’re meant to be. It’s not a final destination, but a path we choose daily. It’s the base from which our chariot moves forward.
When intrinsic motivation and self-actualization work together, we’re not just surviving—we’re living intentionally.
The Chariot’s Lesson: Align the Sphinxes
The Chariot isn’t just about moving forward—it’s about moving with direction. The two sphinxes in the card represent inner tension: fear and ambition, discipline and impulse, doubt and drive. Left unchecked, they pull us apart.
But when we lead from emotional clarity, when we know our “why,” we bring those opposing forces into harmony.
This is the truth the Chariot teaches: You are not the sphinxes. You are the one who drives.
Motivation is not found in being pushed by life. It’s found in choosing to move with purpose.
Four Ways to Cultivate Intrinsic Motivation Through Emotional Intelligence
1. Clarify Your Core Values
Ask yourself: What do I truly care about? What principles give your life meaning? Whether it's growth, freedom, creativity, or service—naming your values is the first step to honoring them.
2. Reflect on Flow States
Think of moments when you were so engaged in something that time disappeared. These “flow states” are sacred clues. They tell you what gives you life. Look closely at those experiences—what about them sparked that internal fire?
3. Set Meaningful Goals
Set goals that serve your evolution, not your ego. Instead of chasing status or external validation, ask: What would make me feel more aligned with who I truly am?
4. Create Discipline That Supports Your Vision
The Chariot doesn’t just move—it stays on course. Structure is what keeps you going when the spark fades. Create simple, supportive routines that anchor your larger vision.
The Chariot Within
Motivation isn’t a burst of energy—it’s a quiet commitment. It’s a sacred conversation between your values, your vision, and your will. The Chariot doesn’t wait for life to hand him a map. He charts his own course.
When Emotional Intelligence guides our inner work, we begin to understand our own rhythms. We stop relying on pressure or praise to keep us moving. Instead, we move from a deeper place—one that is steady, grounded, and true.
And in that space, we don’t just move forward. We become.
Continue the Journey
At Mythologica Coaching & Consulting, I help individuals and leaders align with their inner compass through coaching, counseling, and symbolic self-work. If you're ready to explore your own motivations and live from a place of depth and direction, reach out and begin your journey.
